valentine's day with layla grace

 

SURE IT’S ONLY JANUARY 11, but don’t be lulled into a false sense of security thinking you have tons of time to get your Valentine’s day shopping done.

VALENTINE’S DAY is quickly approaching and now is the time to grab a little something special for the one you love (or yourself…nothing wrong with treating yourself I always say).  And if you can get it on sale, then all the better.  There’s nothing wrong with saying “I love you” while saving a little cash.

NOW THROUGH JANUARY 31st, Layla Grayce is offering 15% off Valentine’s Day Gifts with the promo code LOVE15. They have goodies galore some of which are even customizable just for your sweetie (or yourself, your mom, sister or bff).  I’ve put together a few of my favorites (seriously, Lollia’s Wish perfume is in my top 10 favorites of all time.  It’s so deliciously sweet) just for you.

Get a Jump on Valentine’s Day with Layla Grace 

 

layla grace vday items

::  1 – Custom Initial Burlap Pillow  ::  2 – Waxing Poetic Custom Signet Ring  ::  3 –  Blue & Whit Gingham Apron  ::  4 – Lollia Little Luxe Eau De Parfume Samper (my favorites!)  ::  5 – Macaron Soaps Gift Box  ::

 

NOW IF YOU’LL EXCUSE ME, I have a Lollia perfume sampler to buy…yummmmmmmm.

 
 

Kisses & Chaos,
Alli Woods Frederick

 
 

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david's bridal

 

DEAR DAVID’S BRIDAL,
 
 
I RECENTLY SAW one of your newest ad campaigns and it certainly got my attention…for all the wrong reasons.  As a matter of fact it’s this very ad that has me so disgusted.

 

 

*email subscribers can watch the video here*

 

I WAS SHOCKED by the complete lack of emotion and the blatant and overwhelmingly shallow and materialistic message the ad conveyed.  And I am not easily shocked.

CONTRARY TO WHAT YOUR HORRENDOUS AD ESPOUSES, A WEDDING IS NOT ALL ABOUT THE BRIDE NOR IS IT ALL ABOUT HER GOWN.

 

david's bridal

 

A WEDDING IS ABOUT LOVE; it’s about the joining of souls, hearts and lives; it’s about a couple sharing and celebrating their love with family and friends.  It’s a celebration of the future; of hope; of happiness.  It’s all about the love.

 

david's bridal

 

A WEDDING IS NOT, contrary to your ad’s declaration by the self-proclaimed invisible groom, all about the bride.  It is not “her day.”  It is not a three ring circus with the bride serving as ring master.  It is not about how much money you spend.  And it is not all about the dress.

OUR “CULTURE” (or the lack thereof) is turning beautiful declarations of love and dedication into outrageous and often ridiculous affairs that are more about keeping up with the Joneses and less about making lifelong commitments.

SHAME ON YOU, DAVID’S BRIDAL, for not only encouraging this awful trend, but for portraying brides as self-absorbed narcissists and marginalizing grooms – neutering them and turning them into nothing more than an accessory in the ceremony.

 

david's bridal

 

IF THIS IS HOW YOU VIEW MARRIAGE, as nothing more than an expensive ego-stroke for the bride instead of a beautiful expression of love between two people, then you should be ashamed of yourself and so should the ad agency that developed this campaign.

IF THIS IS what your company believes (which it clearly does, hence the ad) you can be sure that I, should I ever be blessed enough to marry, will not be giving you my business…and I hope that brides to be who share my belief that weddings are to be cherished and shared by both the bride and the groom will join me in my boycott.

ENJOY your new target market of selfish and hellacious bridezillas your new ad campaign will be bringing you.  I’m sure your staff will enjoy every second of working with them.  And I sincerely hope that, in the future, you rethink your companies values and what a wedding really is.

 
 

Kisses & Chaos from one who still believes in the magic of love,
Alli Woods Frederick

 

PS – Am I just being overly sensitive?  What do you guys think?  I just get tired of seeing men mocked, emasculated and marginalized in our culture.  Their constant portrayal as being bumbling idiots, lazy, thoughtless and unnecessary has gotten on my last nerve and it was struck by this ad. And the constant portrayal of brides as demanding and self-centered is equally maddening. Am I alone on this?  Please share your thoughts in the comments or join the conversation on Facebook or Twitter.  Surely I’m not the only one who has noticed this trend.  Surely I’m not the only one who still appreciates men and views marriage as a blessing…am I?

 
 

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SO LAST YEAR I was attempting Project 52 – a photo project that consists of one photo a week for a year resulting in 52 photos…hence the name Project 52.  I failed miserably.  But to be fair I moved twice and my marriage ended once and for all after dying a very slow and painful death along with a million other changes that required my attention.  So I’m giving myself a pass on not completing it. I’m just happy to have survived the year with some semblance of sanity intact.

BUT THIS YEAR it’s on.  I’ve decided to join a group of Project 52’ers this year and it’s organized by the fabulous Sarah Cornish of My Four Hens Photography (you may remember her from my interview series The Same 7).  My hope is that joining a group will make me accountable and keep me on track so I don’t slack off or get distracted.

EVERY WEEK a theme is selected and participants shoot and submit their own take on the concept.  Week one is now behind us and here is my contribution:

 

1/52:  REFLECTIONS
TITLE:  …leaving the ghosts we’ve made behind…

project 52

 

Kisses & Chaos,
Alli Woods Frederick

 

PS – It’s not too late to join in.  Feel free to swing by M4HP and find out how to join in the fun.  If you’re doing your own Project 52 feel free to leave a link to your work in the comments section below.

 

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fix dry winter skin

::  via vogue  ::

WALKING IN A WINTER WONDERLAND may be romantic but it is hell on your skin.  The cold dry air turns your skin into sandpaper faster than you can say frostbite.  So how do you keep skin soft and supple during these frosty winter days?

 

5 WAYS TO FIX DRY WINTER SKIN

 

1)  Cover Up!

fix dry skin

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PROTECTION is your best line of defense (wow.  that was redundant.) so cover what you can when you brave the cold, blustery weather.  Gloves, boots, scarves – you get the idea.

 
 

2)  About Face

fix dry winter skin

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THE VAST MAJORITY of us have no desire to rock a ski mask every time we leave the house which means your facial moisturizer has to kick some serious ass.  Look for products that contain hyaluronic acid or lactic acid, both of which beat back dry skin by sealing in moisture.

TWO OF MY FAVORITES are Philosophy Hope in a Jar and Sephora Collection Instant Moisturizer both of which are available in spf formulas as well (because yes, you need to wear sunblock in winter too.  I’ve had melanoma.  I know what I’m talking about).

AT NIGHT consider adding extra virgin olive oil after your usual moisturizer.  It doesn’t clog pores and is pH perfection.  A little goes a long way so use it sparingly.  Yes it will be a little greasy but it absorbs while you sleep and you’ll wake with hydrated skin.

 
 

3)  Hands & Feet

fix dry winter skin

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TO KEEP YOUR TOOTSIES happy and soft exfoliation is the key.  Before bed use a pumice stone and follow up with a lotion that contains urea, which will help slough off the rest of the dead skin and keep ‘em soft.  Follow the lotion with a pair of soft cotton socks and wake with baby soft feet.

AS FOR HANDS, if they’re crazy-dry and you can put up with a little greasiness then go for a heavy duty product.  It will help moisturize and serve as a barrier.  Aquaphor is a great choice.

IF YOU’RE LIKE ME and can’t stand greasy, sticky hands you can still get excellent results from lighter products.  The two I swear by are Nivea Skin Crème (which works great for the body too but it is lanolin based so vegans beware) and The Body Shop’s Hemp Hand Protector (they also make a body butter version which is completely amazeballs…but it also contains beeswax…sorry again vegans).  They both transform your hands instantly.  Not only will your hands be hydrated and soft but they actually look younger which is an added bonus, for sure.

 
 

4)  Hydrate

fix dry winter skin

::  cloud on glass of water  ::

 

DRINK that H2O, baby.  Hydrate your skin from the inside out.  So get your drink on and chug-a-lug darlin’s.  A little extra water never killed anyone (flooding and drowning aside, of course).

 
 

5)  Stop Being Nosy

fix dry winter skin

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YOUR POOR LITTLE NOSE.  Step outside and the cold makes it run like a victim in a horror movie.  Step inside and the heater that’s cranked to the max turns it into the Sahara making your nasal passages painful, burning and even bloody.  You can try using a humidifier or a non-medicated moisturizing nasal spray if you catch the dryness early but if you want a quick overnight fix then Vaseline is the way to go.

PLACE A LITTLE Vaseline on either end of a cotton swab and carefully apply* a thin coat to the inside of each nostril.  Don’t goop it on.  The goal is to moisturize, not suffocate.  Just a little swipe does the trick.  Your nostrils will feel noticeably better in the morning.  Repeat as needed.

FOLLOW THESE 5 TIPS and your skin will be feeling and looking better in no time.

DO YOU HAVE any skin saving tips for winter?  Favorite lotions or moisturizers?  I’m always excited about new lotions and skincare and would love to hear your tips and tricks.  Leave your words of wisdom in the comments or join the conversation on twitter or facebook.

 
 

Kisses & Chaos,
Alli Woods Frederick

 

*seriously,  carefully. Don’t go jamming q-tips up your nose.  Use some common sense.  You don’t want to give yourself an accidental frontal lobotomy, so keep it to the lower portion of the nostrils, boys and girls.  Don’t go digging for gold up in your nasal canal.  Keep it shallow.

 
 

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Kisses & Chaos,
Alli Woods Frederick

 

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